Question by pinkzebra: What is the best way to brake up with my boyfriend without hurting him?
My boyfriend loves me a lot but i don’t feel the same towards him anymore. I am scare of the way he’s going to react when I brake up with him.
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Answer by SAD
Well, definitely don’t send him a letter. Breaking up hurts, so, yeah, he’s going to most likely get upset. There is no pain-free way to break (not brake) up with someone.
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.Honesty is the best policy.Just tell him you need some space to sort out your priorities.That your having relationship problems.The chemistry is no longer there
Meet him (not on the phone). Tell him you like him (otherwise you would not get to be together at all), BUT you don’t love him.
He will be hurt for some time. Reasoning would not help it. But you can tell him you think being direct will be later seen more respectable than just lying to him or decieving him for a longer time. This will register in his mind and be of comfort when time comes.
First of all you need to realise that its better to break up with him sooner rather than later. He will sense that you longer want to be with him and that’s not a nice position to be in. Also, the longer you stay with him for fear of hurting his feelings, the more you’ll resent him deep down.
Secondly, you need to accept that however you do it, he will be hurt when you break up with him and that is inevitable. But he will get over it in time. The process won’t be nice for either of you but show respect and kindness, tell him the things that are great about him, but be honest that you no longer love him and don’t want to be in the relationship. Good luck.
be honest with him
Don’t just string him along. Come right out clean and just tell him you’re not into him anymore.
**This break-up should be in PERSON.**
No sending it to him in a text,or email or phone call,etc. He’ll feel like you put the break up in the back seat, he wasn’t good enough for a break up in person.. you get the picture.
Kay that was the easy part. Now here’s the hard part: Cushioning the blow.
Well, just come right out. Tell him what you feel .. and don’t tack on a list of his faults either. Nice and simple. “It’s not you, it’s me. We can still be friends. I’m sorry.” Yup. That’s all I can say.