Question by lilmitch07: Girlfriend ?
well my girlfriend and i have been dating off and on for two years now and she sometimes goes and hangs out with one of her friends out of town. I do not like her friend because she is the biggest tramp from that town and i do not like my girlfriend being around her. I do not believe my girlfriend would ever dheat on me, but she didn’t return any of my calls lst night or even call me before she went to bed like she always does. I don’t know if i am over reacting about this, but i dont like her being with that other girls because of the random guys she hooks up with, because those random guys have friend. I have always had trust issues with every girl i have dated but i have such strong feelings for this one idk if it is right to question her. What do I do. I have talked to her a couple of times about it and she gets mad and says ” oh so you dont want me to have any friends”
Answer by sadistwitch
I think you need to loosen up on her or the whole thing is going to blow up in your face. The only way you are ever going to learn to trust someone is give them space to breathe……trust them unless they give you a reason not to be trusted. And maybe calling each other every night, or calling her several times when she won’t answer the phone……is a bit much after two years. Most of all, you cannot pick her friends, or force her away from ones you don’t like. Be more accepting or her choices in this field, even when you don’t agree. IF she is doing something untrustworthy…….it will all come out in the wash anyway. And again, you should be trusting with her until you have a reason not to be.
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